Ambii [she/her, they/them]
ex good_girl
I wish there was an admin coup. The coup thing the original post was talking about was how midtraveler and grail got the mod of blahaj’s liberty hub chased out for not aligning with literally every action they asked for in a timely fashion. And despite how argumentative midtraveler and grail are, ada refused to take action against either of them and let the mod get chased off the site.
New account, same old me (good_girl)
entering a new era of trans posting.
thinking about it the other day and i realized that while i never connected with my culture/heritage when I thought I was cis, i’m more openly embracing it as a woman.
Don’t say “I think i might be…” or “I’ve been thinking”, nothing that will sound like an opening to dismiss or argue your feelings.
“I am” or “I’ve known for [time frame]” work best because they cement your feelings as a fact.
Expect questions that might feel overly invasive or personal that you may not want to or be ready to share like “Why do you feel this way?”, “Are you sure?”, “What made you feel this way?”, “Are you going to do x, y or z?”
Coming out is the hardest step, I promise you things get much easier to talk about once it’s out in the open.
You got this!
whining about needles
how the FUCK do i get over my fear of needles for injections.
I’ve been doing this shit for 4 months at this point and I still cannot do it myself (my girlfriend has injected me every time) and today I cried like a fucking child because i was so frustrated i couldn’t do my injection because my anxiety was so high.
I hate this but I don’t want to do any other form goddamn it.
Maybe i should switch to subcutaneous from intramuscular but i already have like 5 dozen syringes and filter needles.
God this sucks i feel so stupid