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LeftyAutisticKinkyMemer

LeftyAutisticKinkyMemer@lemmynsfw.com
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I think I (and many others) under value dates. It’s about building trust and genuinely liking the person as well. I’m kinda not into “hookups” i.e. you meet someone on Grindr jerk each other off then never see each other again.

The anticipation, genuinely having a good time with whatever you’re doing, then you can’t keep your hands off each other in the car/uber/bus home. I used to have that with my gf, not really anymore unfortunately :/

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That’d be great because pretty much every night I wish my gf had a cock I could like rub up against as she’s big-spooning lol, is that weird? Also, so much icky sexism would be removed lol.

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This is great! Sick of dealing with stupid ai chatbot restrictions lol.

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If by guilty you mean seems disgusting when not jerking off, or seems somehow “wrong” it’s definitely watersports. I’m a switch so I both imagine me pissing on people and getting pissed on.

For me it’s definitely about power, I have a friend who’s into scat (no kinkshaming, not my thing, but it’s very common trust me lol) who, ironically, has to kind of “fake” being into bdsm because the vast majority of people are into scat in the power play way, but he isn’t, he just likes that fetish on its own more or less.

I’m not really like that, for me its all about the power exchange. Like I don’t think I’d enjoy it outside of a bdsm scene or dynamic.

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I don’t agree. Downvotes might be not relevant and counter productive in general discussions, but in porn communities I think they’re critically important. If there’s no downvotes, spam bots or trolls will overtake communities. Mods can only get to things so fast.

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for me its when the dom is the oxymoron of sadistic and gentle… like the line is definitely blurred a bit but i think you can definitely have that mommydom vibe but still be into like spanking, bondage, etc.

welcome-to-heaven is one of my favourite artists, i linked rule34.xxx so you don’t have to go to reddit

in terms of shit i’m not into, cucking, or just in general mean-dom.

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not sure how big this instance is gonna get, but gonewildaudio is one of my favourite subreddits. I actually have no idea what’s going to happen to that subreddit if they decide to not reopen. Because that really was a unique place, most of the rest of the content you can find elsewhere but I genuinely have no idea where to find that kind of stuff if not for reddit.

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usually what happens with me and cnc is like fucking love it whilst watching, but then I think of the unfortunate implications afterwards… its why hentai/drawn stuff is nice because at the end of the day you know nobody was coerced/pressured/forced to do it because they have no money otherwise.

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