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Lilith

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Just your classic raging angry feminist who eats misogynists for lunch. šŸ¦ˆ

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We already attempted this accelerationist approach in 2016 with Clinton and received Trump and things are much worse due to the 4 years of his first term. Trans rights, reproductive rights, minority rights, and so much more have been eroded in that time. Trump was also able to stack SCOTUS with conservative judges that will have lasting ramifications and two more justices are nearing retirement age in the next presidential cycle. If Trump is elected again, the court will become even more conservative with lasting ramifications that will nearly impossible to undo.

Trump has outright stated he wants Isreal to finish the job and Netanyahu supports him. Biden is not perfect, but literally abstaining from voting for him will make the situation immensely worse for both Gaza and here in the US. To ignore that reality shows ignorance in voting as a single issue voter and shows you have nothing to loose from your privilege. I donā€™t have that grace as a woman in a red state now relagated as reproductive cattle nor do my Trans or Minority friends who just want to live as they are. Voting for Biden avoids the 2025 Handmaidā€™s Tale that the Christian Right desperately wants and still gives us the ability to complain his actions are not enough for Gaza. With Trump that ability absolutely dissolves.

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Iā€™ve heard that about charities and non-profits; itā€™s just the nature of the work they do. I am worried about the grass not exactly being greener if I were to go that route. But at the same time if I found the right one, I know I would feel more motivated for the work if it was for a good cause. Iā€™ve had to put in the crunch and grumble over last minute changes, but itā€™s one thing if itā€™s for keeping up with a competitors marketing promo vs assisting a system to support refugees. I like working with people, but I hate it when those people are profit driven.

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Thank you for sharing your own experience. While part of me wants completely out of tech, I really think the right company culture plays a role in that. I wouldnā€™t mind staying in the field if I found something similar to your own job.

Out of curiosity, how did you find your current job? Iā€™m used to using LinkedIn, but I feel it has become very Facebooky and very corporate America. Iā€™ve heard of Dice and Indeed, but havenā€™t heard if one is better than the other for these types of jobs.

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Iā€™m so happy for you! You got this and youā€™ll do well!

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The US is literally on the precipice of deciding if they should become an authoritarian, fascist, theocracy in the next election. Project 2025 is literally staring us in the face and a Biden loss for 2024 all but ensures the end of our democracy. Is it good at this so called democracy now? Not exactly, but it is sure better than the alternative with Trump.

Yes, I am absolutely angry and upset about the situation in Gaza. It bothers me, but I also realize the realities of our current election situation. There is too much on the line for reproductive rights, Trans rights, minority rights, and so much more. Project 2025 puts us one step closer to Handmaidā€™s Tale becoming a reality and marginalized individuals being targeted and possibly put to death. Biden and Trump are our options in this sham two party system and yet I realize not voting for Biden is a sure fire way for things to get worse.

So when I and others see a trend of negative post after negative post about Biden, it reads as a social engineering attack to brew apathy to convince people not to vote. This happened in 2016 with Hillary and we were all told not to worry about Trump. Well I loss my own authority over my reproductive freedom, anti-Trans rhetoric rose, and a chunk of our population became convinced BLM was the bad guys. I and others arenā€™t perfectly happy Biden is the Democratic pick, but him winning a avoids Project 2025 and a GOP Fascist takeover.

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Oblivion is hands-down one of my favorite games I have ever played and I feel itā€™s a more engaging game than Skyrim was. Sure it has its quirks and certain annoying features that are dated, but it captivated and locked me in way better than Skyrim. It was colorful, weirdly fantastical, and constantly had me going down random rabbit holes that revealed cool surprises! That is the Bethesda quality I desired that made me want to play their games.

If it was 2016 again and I heard this news about ES VI, I would be on the full hype train. But alas, we are post Starfield and I have lost any faith they will actually deliver on a decent follow-up. It was lackluster, boring, and all grey; nothing whimsical that used to draw me to their games. The doubling down on criticism tells me that creative spirit is gone and development has just turned into get the task done with a set time frame.

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Thereā€™s an Adam Ragusea version that I watched a while ago that initially sparked my interest is savory Dutch Babies; his is a classic bacon, egg, and cheese.

A Cacio e pepe version also sounds really good or a pancetta and gruyere one.

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This looks incredible! Iā€™ve been seeing some recipes for savory Dutch Babies lately, but your caramelized onion and goat cheese combination sounds amazing. I might just have to try making one of these in the near future.

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Iā€™ve been using yā€™all in corporate America for about five years now and have yet had a manager condemn its use. Itā€™s widely accepted now and Iā€™ve had coworkers mentioned it makes them fondly remember family from the south. Itā€™s just a good colloquial for referring to a group. Oddly enough ā€œyou guysā€ has slowly been entering my diction too due to working with more folks from the west and midwest.Midwest.

Ainā€™t is one I still unconsciously avoid in professional settings though.

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Fucking hell, Iā€™ve literally had to do the same thing when I was experiencing chest pain and heart palpitations! My husband thought I was nuts for putting on makeup and donning ā€œbusiness wearā€ before he took me to our local urgent care, but I did so I wouldnā€™t be dismissed due to having anxiety on my records. I knew myself what I was feeling wasnā€™t anxiety, but if I looked in anyway or shape or form as an ā€œanxious womanā€ I wouldnā€™t be taken seriously. I even had to specify we needed to go to the one location that was further away due to their closer location dismissing me for a different issue that was properly looked into at this preferred location.

I was lucky to be listened to in that situation, got an EKG, and a referral out to a cardiologist; but that only happened because I had a younger doctor who wanted to rule out all possibilities. A few months previously I was dealing with numbness in one of my legs and the other urgent care I wanted to avoid literally sent me out the door after looking at me for 10 minutes and doing a leg stretch. The issue persisted and it wasnā€™t until I went to this same second location that someone actually ran some blood work on me and referred me for an ultrasound on my leg. It just shouldnā€™t be that hard to be properly treated when both of these experiences revealed issues that needed to be treated.

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