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Wax play feels so overlooked! It can be pretty low risk with a bit of prep and education and can create a huuuuge range of sensations. So much fun, would love to do more. i even got a tiny crockpot from the thrift shop just for these sorts of scenes and it was only a couple bucks.

It’s an electric crock one you just plug it in and wait! Learned this from a dungeon i went to. They always have a crock full of wax and several tools you can dip into in. Usually cups or laddles as well so you don’t contaminate the whole pot. i really like the volume and temperature control but i think the flame of the candle can add a lot to the ambiance!

Maybe a cadle burning nearby would help :) i especially like the sounds of a wood wick.

i actually find the cleanup to be kinda fun, it’s like a big mess to play with! You can do (dull) knife play to remove it or massage with body oil beforehnad to make removal quick and easy.

i like a lot of the usual things so i’ll skip those. One of the ones that people are usually confused about or think is a joke: the bridge of my nose. Like right where it meets the forehead. Something about pressure or being held there just feels really good and safe. It’s like i can turn my mind off a bit and just enjoy whatever other sensations are going on.

On the flip side i don’t enjoy nipple stuff at all. i want to get it but it just doesn’t feel interesting. It’s kinda fun if someone wants to torment me though, it’s a bit like being tickled?

i’m allergic to a lot of the stuff they put in ‘scents’ so people’s natural scent smells so much better to me. Never gonna tell someone not to but i get a little sad when they want a shower before we cuddle or fuck :P

i do yeah, i didn’t get them until i was older though. Just figured everyone saw like that… Eventually i couldn’t read what was on the board in my uni classes. Unsure if it developed before or after that 🤔

Could be part of it but i think it’s more that there’s a lot of nerves near the eyes and it does something for me on a kink level at times.

And nope, no gender for the most part. i’ve had estrogen dominant and testosterone dominant parts of my life, tried progesterone for a while. Still just not into it. Before all that they were sensitive it hurt a bit but now it’s not nearly as bad.

When my girlfriend first brought up ear stuff i was…skeptical but it’s been surprisingly good and there’s so much stuff you can do :)

Oh nice, that’s kinda the setup i’d like i think? Talked to a couple piercers about it and now that i got my other body mods done it’s probably time 👀 Seems like it’d be fun to get someone to ‘lace it up’ or do some rope work :3

When we were trying to do the same for our girlfriend we ultimately had luck using tongue and vibrator at the same time…Either one on each nip or if you can pull it off both on the same one. Try to alternate and give the areas around some attention too if she likes that. Can be kinda like a clit where too much for too long can get kinda…overwhelming in a non orgasmic way. Girlfriend likes sucking and lite biting on them so that helped too. She likes lighter touch with the wand while for myself i occasionally like to press the wand up against the underboob and experiment with speed until the wavelength is just right to stimulate out to the nipple/areola. The indirectness of it can be a nice ‘surprise’ and keep things free ‘on top’ for whatever implement you wanna use.

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