Chastity Training: Experience, Advice, and Discussions
!chastitytraining@lemmynsfw.com
Real talk about Chastity and making it work in the real world. Announcement
We accept anybody locked in (or interested in) chastity, regardless of gender, expression, orientation, kinks, or favourite flavour of ice cream. The only thing that matters is a love of chastity. We also invite keyholders to participate as well.
If you’re asking for advice about specific chastity devices please include a link or pic as names are not consistent across vendors.
Please read rules before commenting or posting.
Various questions that have come up before may already be answered in
Rules
1. Over 18s only. Nothing sounding like OP is younger nor referencing current high school experience
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For everybody’s safety, and to stop the place becoming creepy, posts like “How do I secretly buy/take delivery of a chastity device” will be deleted. (Mail privacy for adults is better covered by non-kink resources, anyway. Also, there are good web resources for young adults here and here.)
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Posts about making chastity devices specifically with a view of evading parental oversight will also be deleted
2. We are here to discuss making chastity work; not to masturbate in it, or over it.
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The topic is chastity devices, making them work and the lifestyle that surrounds it, please try to stay on or around such topics.
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There are other places to flaunt your locked junk, discuss how horny you get and roleplay.
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Long detailed passages about your chastity games followed you by cursory, low effort questions will likely get locked too.
3. Links to images are allowed, but must support informational/technical discussion
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Pics should be illustrative to the discussion or questions at hand, such as identifying a device.
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If you just want to flaunt your junk, head over to !chastity@lemmynsfw.com.
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Images should not contain other erotic activity.
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Image posts will be initially moderated by title. (We don’t want to know about your ass, ass toys, smooth shave, or lingerie.) If you think you have been unfairly deleted, just repost with a better descriptive title.
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Thinly veiled sissy content will be removed and may result in a ban.
4. Genuine original posts only: no porno-speak, role-play, obvious fantasising, or stolen content.
- OC only. No reposts, no stolen content. You can link to… stimulating blogs, but only if they are on topic.
5. “Lock up” suggestions threads are not allowed
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Threads canvassing opinion from the community readers on how long you should lock yourself up, giving you tasks to do while locked, or giving you rewards/punishments for failing are not allowed.
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Take these to a more appropriate role play communities.
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Broader discussions about chastity related rewards and punishments or chastity motivation in the context of a sub-dom dynamic are allowed. Just steer away from using the subreddit for role playing
6. No soliciting: i.e followers, DMs, chat friends, emlalock/chaster, keyholding, paid services, etc…
7. Be safe, sane, and consensual. Don’t assume dynamic or identity, or relative status.
- We’re not all sissies. Some of us aren’t subs. Those who are subs aren’t your sub. Also don’t recommend crazy, impractical or dangerous stuff.
8. All content is subject to moderation.
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Posts/comments may be removed without warning for any reason, even if if doesn’t break one of the above rules.
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Common topics covered by the FAQ may be locked.
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If you’re confused why your post/comment has been removed, feel free to message the moderation team.
9. No Bigotry, Trolling
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Shouldn’t have to be said but we don’t allow any bigoted discriminatory or prejudiced posts or comments
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This includes (but is not limited to) anything sexist, racist, ableist, homophobic or transphobic.
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There is zero tolerance for either red pill or Female Dating Strategy gender-essentialist nonsense.
10. Reasonable promotion of new products and writing is allowed, but not services.
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We are interested in new things. Feel free tell us about new your things, products or new writing (as long as you provide a stub and the articles aren’t just advertising copy) and so on.
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If you have new ideas you’d like to share or you’re developing something new and would like feedback from the community please do post.
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Key holding services or similar remain strictly not allowed
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Please don’t spam the board, if you become a nuisance we will use the ban hammer.
11. Unreasonable promotion, obvious scams and rip-offs will be removed
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Some vendors are obviously scammers who are ripping off the community and hurting legitimate manufacturers. We’ll lock or remove any posts that appear to be promoting such vendors.
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A specific example of this are https://cobrachastity.com/ who are marking up cheap chinese knock-offs for 4 to 6 times their $20 value. Don’t get conned by such people
Please contact mods if you want to help moderate here
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Rules
Before you start participating, please take a moment to familiarize yourself with our rules:
- (Rule One) 🔞 Age Requirement: All users and lurkers MUST be age 18 or over.
- a. Posting content involving any person who is under 18 is strictly forbidden. This includes real, drawn, and fictional content.
- b. All loli/shota/cub or similar content is strictly forbidden.
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(Rule Two) Respect and Consent: Treat all members with respect and obtain consent when sharing explicit content involving others. No doxxing. No soliciting or sharing personal info. No homophobia, transphobia, body shaming, or kinkshaming. Don’t be an asshole.
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(Rule Three) No NSFL/Gore/Snuff Content: We strictly forbid the sharing or promotion of NSFL (Not Safe For Life) or gore content. This includes fictional snuff scenarios.
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(Rule Four) No Bestiality/Zoophilia: We strictly forbid any NSFW content involving animals.
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(Rule Five) No Non-Consensual Content: We strictly forbid content made or released without consent of everyone in the content, including revenge porn / deepfakes / leaked content / NC / true voyeur / rape content.
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(Rule Six) No Illegal Content: - We strictly forbid promotion and detailed discussion of things that are broadly illegal in most of the world, like murder, animal cruelty, money laundering, and so on. Our policy on mind-altering substances is more complicated – see the FAQ (its in the table of contents to the right).
- a. Solicitation of sexual services (either way, asking or offering) is strictly forbidden. (why?)
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(Rule Seven) NSFW Flag: All NSFW communities and posts must be flagged as NSFW.
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(Rule Eight) No Rules Lawyering: Admin decisions are final and arguing with them can result in a suspension or banning of your account and removal of your content. (if you feel a community is not being sufficiently moderated or properly following these guidelines, please contact an admin.)
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(Rule Nine) Don’t Spam Posts: Please only post a few posts to a community at a time. You may mean well by posting several posts at once, but because of lemmy’s limited algorithms this will saturate the feeds of many people on this instance and other instances.
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What is considered spamming will be left up to the admins/mods, but if you’ve made more than 10 posts at a time in a single community, consider waiting until a later time to continue posting to that community.
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Please limit cross posting the same image to 5 times or less
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Spamming may result in a 1 day or longer community or sitewide ban depending on the severity and if it’s a repeated offense.
If any material is ambiguous or borderline forbidden content, we’re usually going to err on the side of caution. Please use your common sense.
This is a condensed form of our rules. If you want to read further discussion into the rules above, our reasonings behind our decisions, general knowledge about the instance and things generally our team would like you to know please click here to visit our docs page.
All users and communities must follow and respect these general instance-wide rules. Any violations could result in suspension or banning of your account or community and purging of your content.
Community Guidelines
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Stay Relevant: Share relevant content in the relevant communities and ensure your content complies with the rules of those communities.
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Self-Promotion: Self-Promotion is only okay as long as the community you are posting in allows it, and you don’t spam it.
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Content Sourcing - We would strongly prefer all content be credited and sourced if possible, to make it easier to keep CSAM and noncon off of the instance. See the FAQ for more info.
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Furry Content - Furry content is allowed (unless it conflicts with any other rules) but furries may be better served at https://pawb.social/ or https://yiffit.net/.
Temporary Rules
Because of technical limitations of the Lemmy platform, we are forced to implement some restrictions on content. These are restrictions that don’t necessarily fit with our larger philosophy. We hope to revise this section once Lemmy evolves as a platform and moderation tools improve.
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NSFW User Avatar: NSFW user avatars are prohibited as it is currently not possible to mark users as NSFW. NSFW user banners are also prohibited.
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Temporary Content Restrictions: The following content is temporarily restricted: Hot lunch (🤮), blood, scat, CNC.
If you are the admin of another instance and you have any issues with Lemmy NSFW please raise it with one of our admins so we can communicate on how we can improve this instance. We would prefer to work with you before either of us consider defederation.