Oh god, I just watched Baby Reindeer

two things, no three,

you just can’t tell who is going to become a stalker, I had one, a guy I had never met and didn’t know asked me out, I kindly declined, he got nasty immediately and then stalked for months.

I’m so self conscious and unsure that half the time I think I’m a bad guy. Watching that show , omg, not one thing the abuser did would ever cross my mind.

and lastly, and the most important thing, what this series is about, is male sexual abuse. 😭

Another thing in the show, friends and family, people who love us, will help us. Abuse makes people feel alone, don’t let it.

Just watch the show.

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