Our fantasies and preferences aren’t fixed or immovable, so I’m curious what’s the latest one you’ve discovered you’re into?

It can be mundane or taboo or even fantastical and totally impossible in real life.

I’m a bi gal but I’ve recognized that I’m mostly attracted to femininity. Recently I’ve discovered that i really like the aesthetics of boys in thigh highs and skirts and other feminine clothing. That one feels new and surprising to me.

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I recently got to do my first CNC scene with a partner with whom I have been able to build up a good amount of trust.

The feeling of power of forcing someone who “doesn’t want this” is incredible.

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OMG I am glad to hear this. I got to play this way with my lover of a few years back and it’s so hot but I always kind of thought he just did it because I liked it - for me someone saying no would be such a turnoff, but for me saying “please yes” is hot but “please no” is sometimes even hotter!

It is good to hear that someone can enjoy the other side of it.

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It is a surprisingly common kink, from both sides.

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