A big peeve of mine is when someone says they did something, “I remodeled my floors, I painted the walls, I fixed my car, i put in a fence”, when they really mean they hired people to do these things. It’s straight up taking credit for other people’s work and it’s normalized.
I grew up poor where hiring help was rare so when someone said they did something, they always said it proudly and they meant they did it themselves.
Now I always ask and point out they didn’t do anything. I’m really fun that way. But honestly i think the language matters. For big jobs i personally say I had the walls painted or I got the car fixed since that implies getting someone else to do it.
Normal people work to earn the money in order to pay professionals for the work they aren’t able to do themselves, there is no shame in that.
There is shame in claiming that they did it though. It’s called a lie. It others the workers you did pay for. And it denigrates their expertise and experience. Instead say you got someone to do it for you. Or you hired someone. Or you got the experts in. Don’t lie - that’s shameful
I dunno, that’s very nitpicky. In the end, if you’re someone who earns their money directly without employing anyone, it’s your hard work that paid for the professionals’ work anyway.