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Do you find genitals attractive?

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So I’ve been trying to figure out my sexuality and what sort of stuff I like, and I’ve stumbled upon a bit of a roadblock; I just don’t find vaginas or dicks that attractive. If I’m watching some porn or whatever and they zoom in to people’s junk, that’s a bit of a turn off. Honestly they just look like messy meat to me.

So I figured I’d ask; do you like dick/vagina pics? How much does it matter for how attractive you find someone?

… And you know what, since I’m asking things, shaven or unshaven?

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norimee@lemmy.world
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I honestly think you shouldn’t look at porn to figure out your sexuality. What you see there, is not how real life works and that you are not attracted to zoom-ins on pornstar genitals doesn’t say anything about how you feel about the real thing in the right situation.

How much does it matter for how attractive you find someone?

Its the other way around. If I find someone attractive in the first place determines how much I’m into their penis/vagina. Its way differnt, if you are into a person or if you are watching random people on screen.

Edit to add: trimmed

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cm0002@lemmy.world
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Or at least look up amateur porn, the commercial stuff really sucks ass (heh) and has that whole “Hollywood” feel to it.

I prefer shaved, but don’t mind a bit of hair unless you want me to go down on you, then shaved is a requirement.

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lnsfw3@lemmynsfw.com
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I honestly think you shouldn’t look at porn to figure out your sexuality

This.

I find sexuality hard to remove from a person and a situation. Not finding something attractive on a screen doesn’t mean you won’t find it attractive in person.

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NeoNachtwaechter@lemmy.world
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Good advice here.

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