I never had issues with racist family, luckily enough.

Just internal issues. I feel like, with the exception of one partner, I can’t give White women I dated the anti-racist pass. They always reveal a lack of understanding or solidarity in some form or another, just a matter of time. Then that leads to internal issues between us depending on how major it is or how patient I’m feeling.

The one White girlfriend who was cool though was my longest partner, we went 7 years and not one racist incident. Actually she’s called me out on my mistakes. Haha