Different people have very different lives, so I’m interested to hear the range of replies.
Do you only get sexual in a monogamous relationship? Do you use ‘hookup apps’ or specialized apps? Do you meet people at events? Casual events, special-interest clubs, hobby clubs? Are you involved in a fetish community? Do your friendships become sexual? Do you party at dance clubs? Do you pay at a brothel? Do you get approached unexpectedly in public? Do you look for partners intentionally or do you meet partners incidentally?
Nyah!~ I wish I felt physically how I feel online. Would be a huge confidence boost, not worrying about myself visually. Master says it doesn’t matter (which is sweet, he’s been trying the last few years to make me feel more positive about myself/image/worth), and I recently started playing with a kind friend of a friend online + irl who doesn’t seem to mind (yay), but the worry is just so difficult to shake. Maybe I just need to push past it and try harder, maybe it’s mostly in my head and I’m being my own hindrance… Bah. I don’t believe it, but maybe.