Hi Lemons 😉

I was wondering what sort of things turn men on visually and personality wise? Same question for women?

And how come we don’t have more active users interested in sharing nsfw pictures, roleplaying and just other stuff? So much potential but still not many users?

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physically, that’s a toughie. In general, I’m not really into skinny people or muscular men - though buff women are a major plus. Curvier folks tend to catch my eye. I also feel that I have some contrasts between genders - I have higher preference for taller, muscular, energetic women, and shorter, , average men. Also short hair on women and long on men are great - I don’t know why more guys don’t let their hair grow. But the opposites are not real dealbreakers.

This makes sense to me, you like more androgynous and less sharply masculine or feminine people. Also makes sense because people willing to buck gender norms are probably (not absolutely, but probably) more open minded in other ways.

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I wouldn’t necessarily say androgynous, I’m highly attracted to “reverse” expectations, or at least societal norms of those expectations. Butch, muscular, masculine women and femme, curvy, meekier men.

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