What gets you in the mood during the build up to sex? Kissing? Dirty talk? Oral? Lets talk about what really gets you going!
It can be as simple as having a stressful day and looking for closeness and release. Sometimes we get each other going with some sexting. Both of us are turned on rather easily by each other. I’m not sure we have ever been able to just cuddle or give a massage without going at it like crazy people shortly afterwards.