As someone with neurodiversity I recognize clothes have many layers, no pun intended. There are cultural significances and practical uses, these are the two main qualities of clothing. Culture eventually wins over the practicality of certain garments, people wear flight jackets without being pilots, people wear Stetson’s without being ranchers, I fit that second category. Living in this country I have been exposed to the common judgement passed by others, Americans love to observe a person and fish out their qualities so that they can equate them to something familiar usually attached to pop culture. Since I live in the city, wearing a rancher hat most people won’t care but some people will point and say “Ayyy I’m walking here” or “Howdy pardner” or some stupid shit.

Two years ago when I didn’t care about appearance I had many people point and laugh, one person I confronted said “when is x album coming out”, essentially comparing me to some washed up classic rock star who I looked nothing like. I walked back to their apartment after researching what they said and said some things which made them close their window and end their windowsill “comedy show” which was essentially what I mentioned before, the lowest form of comedy of making fun of appearances and comparing those features to someone else / pop culture references.

But the hat is seven hundred dollars.

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By real cowboy, I mean people who actually have and/or work on cattle ranches

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I know what you meant, my bad, I should’ve phrased that differently. I’m asking that of these guys, and what I really mean to ask is where they got the idea that only working cowboys can dress that way when there’s so few of them to begin with, and when that manner of dress has so long ago transcended its original purpose.

Like what’s next, you can’t wear blue jeans if you don’t work in a coal mine?

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I’m being pedantic for no reason other than my lineage being a mix of Appalachia and west coast, but coal miners typically wore denim overalls and modern jeans were worn by western miners who were mostly mining precious metals like silver, gold, and copper.

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Hey, please, be pedantic, it’s just one more way for me to learn (And I’m definitely not also saying that because I’m habitually pedantic myself.) I do recall reading something like that though, in a book I’ve got on jeans in the old west. Clearly it’s been a while since I’ve opened it lol

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I mean, if you’re out in the Texas sun kicking cow shit all day, then a cowboy hat and boots are still for their original, practical purpose. But also, they don’t have a monopoly on those clothes items (stolen originally from the Mexicans like everything else in Texas) and who cares what they think anyway? They’re by and large a bunch of incredibly reactionary hicks who think the closest midsize city is controlled by roving gangs of minorities

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My thoughts exactly. Plus gatekeepers are pests no matter what’s at issue.

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