I’m new and wondering if it’s allowed to post photos and ask if you pass, like on r/ftmpassing
It’s been a while since you said this, but I didn’t see it earlier. Sorry about that. I appreciate what you’ve said; I didn’t realize my post had the potential to be harmful. I will cogitate on your words and consider this in the future.
thanks for taking my words into consideration. i don’t think your post in isolation is really harmful, but it’s more of like, what sort of culture do we want to create? i’ve been online for a long time and in a decent number of trans spaces, so i’ve thought about it a lot, and it can be easy to slip into these sort of nefarious and unhealthy thought patterns
always easier to think about these things upfront, rather than trying to wrangle them when they’ve taken root and people have become accustomed to them
