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Bi Men Are Not Considered Attractive, New Study Says(bi.org)

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Sadly, the woman I briefly dated is not alone in her beliefs. In a survey of over 1,000 women, conducted by Glamour in 2016, 63% of women said they wouldn’t date a man who’s had sex with another man. (This isn’t just men who identify as bi. This includes all men who’ve experimented with another man, even if it only happened once!) Still, 47% of women said they’ve been attracted to another woman, and 31% of women have had a sexual experience with another woman.

NOTE: This is not the titular study but is used to establish context. The study can be found here: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/15299716.2018.1563935?journalCode=wjbi20
If anybody happens to be able to find the fulltext please feel free to link it.

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intensely_human@lemm.ee
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Patriarchal conceptions of masculinity is aka the instincts of straight female humans.

Everyone wants to blame culture, and via the word “patriarchy” they want to blame men, for this kind of thing but it’s way deeper than that.

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hastati@beehaw.org
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Why do you say “female” but follow it with “men” instead of “male”? Makes you seem like an incel or some men’s rights nut job.

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BloodForTheBloodGod@lemmy.ca
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straight female humans.

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Vilian@lemmy.ca
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what thw fuckn i recomend you to go outside, what a bullshit, and this isn’t a pro-gender war community, stop spreading that, no, actually, go to your red pill/incel instances, just from you using “female” i can feel the misoginy, pleaae, let us alone

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Veraticus@lib.lgbtM
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No, this isn’t just women; it is patriarchy, the entire set of power and systems that everyone participates in. Men blame men for being bisexual at least as much as women do.

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Vilian@lemmy.ca
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please, don’t waste words, look of his others comments, just report if you want, but i don’t they can be convised to let go the hate

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spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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To be fair, in this case I doubt they broke any rules. Speaking up always does more than downvotes. Particularly true for those of us on instances without downvotes.

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