Bullet point 1 is untrue. You have to minimize civilian casualties, but bombing an actual legit target means collateral is not considered a war crime. The civilians still get bombed though.

Bullet point 2 is retaliation on retaliation on retaliation on retaliation ad infinitum… there is no good guy here.

Bullet point 3 seems to ignore Russia and Iran are arming the other side. Just like it ignores that a lot of Israelis in the north were under constant shelling from southern Libanon (Hezbollah)… at some point there would be a response.