i vaguely remember being a kid and going there on a lark and watching the planes. now it’s austere and cruel and cold, cops everywhere, plexiglass and line ropes
By and large–and depending which country you’re in–the visible security measures have largely tapered off and have gone behind the scenes. Speaking for US airports, in the immediate aftermath of 9/11 there were actual US military (fully armed) staged throughout the airports, military and police officers gave every vehicle about 30 seconds to let their passengers and luggage out before yelling or whistling for the driver to move on. Depending on your age, you might not recall this.
Nowadays the airport experience is pretty predictable. One shows up to the airport, they might give you a hard time for sticking around the passenger drop-off point too long, but at the airports I’ve been to there are people flat out parked waiting to solicit arrivals for rides. You go to the ticketing counter, proceed through initial (and maybe secondary) security screening then go to your gate.
Only the passenger screening process has changed substantially, and that is where you might reasonably expect to see an increased security presence–however effective it may or may not be. Dropoff is now the same as it used to be, ticketing is the same, and the gate experience is largely the same, too.
If you’re referring to your experience at one particular airport, then it’s possible it’s a local configuration and not really representative of other airports.
If you are in the US, and you’d really like, many airports have dedicated viewing areas from where you can watch arriving and departing aircraft, and in general there are no security procedures to enter those areas.
I flew into the Honolulu from Australia maybe a month after 9/11 and yeah there was military personnel full kitted out ever 3 metres.
When you hopped off the plane you immediately got x-rayed, I didn’t have any carry on so was able to just walk through, unknown to me the person in front of me forgot to grab a fucking poster tube off the x-ray and two of the soldiers ran after me yelling about the tube, I kind of ignored the yelling at first because I didn’t know what the hell the tube was they were yelling about until I sensed everybody was looking at me, I turn around and see them rushing me and right before they got to me the other person is like oh that’s mine… fun holiday