My wife loves nipple stimulation and we dabble in light bdsm together (we’re both switches). Planning a session and am willing to pick up some equipment if needed but I want to get her to orgasm from nipple stimulation only. It’s something she’s mentioned she’d like to try so I want to use this kink session to give it a try. It’ll be fun whether we get there or not.
We have a nice massage table that she’ll be restrained to with arms and legs open. She will also be blindfolded and gagged (gently). I have nipple pumps so I planned to start with those while she’s blindfolded and restrained to increase blood flow and sensitivity. After that point, I’m not really sure what to use to get her there.
Women of Lemmy, any advice after that point? What usually gets you to orgasm from nipple play only? Vibrator? Weighted clamps? Any guidance on what does it for you?
Sensitivity varies a lot from person to person, and some people that are pretty sensitive still won’t reach orgasm that way. For others, myself included, it is possible and even pretty damn easy, and honestly fingers alone are plenty. Gentle flicking, grabbing at the whole breast, and circling the araeolae does the trick generally, but it’s generally a full body experience for girls so stimulating her elsewhere (neck, torso, legs, etc) helps too. Vibrators don’t work quite as well there for me, though they do still feel good. Nipple pumps are a good idea! My partner uses clamps and that also tends to make them pretty sensitive - could be an option depending on if she leans masochist at all.
Have fun!! Sounds like she’s in for a good time 😁