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The comments at the bottom of the article though… I really hate people sometimes.

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Oof they are awful, and indicative of the issues raised in the article. So many of the men commenting are defending the “man” stereotype as “natural”, and ignoring that men have issues existing in society probably because of the pressures of that stereotype. Nobody wants men to feel isolated and lonely and kill themselves 4x as much. I don’t think that’s a “natural” part of being a man. At least it doesn’t have to be.

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And than they turn around and blame feminism for all the problems men face.

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This is why it’s hard for me to take these types seriously.

They complain about not getting compliments, but refuse to compliment each other for fear of sounding “gay”. It’s like they only count compliments if it’s from a sexually interested woman they happen to find attractive.

But women, especially the attractive ones, know better than to compliment men randomly for fear of “leading them on”.

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didn’t see the comments till you pointed them out. But… oof, yeah, its bad, real bad.

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