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19 points

Baaaad.

Good news: BF recovered from COVID about two weeks ago. Yay!

Bad News: He took up the bottle again for reasons too complex to talk about here. Then he tried to start a fight over something that is a legit grievance(I failed to be attentive to his needs, check in more) but when I tried to deescalate he continued to try and fight, and threatened to follow me if I tried to get away. (

After giving him 24 hours to cool off- he did it again over text.

So, I told him to get his stuff, now he’s my ex boyfriend.

I was shocked with his behavior. He’s a grief counselor ffs. But he is also a recovering alcoholic and I just met who he is after a weekend bender.

Sucks.

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That sounds hard comrade. A partner I had experienced alcohol issues in their family and it really is a challenge for everyone involved.

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