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If someone's pronouns are any/all, what should I use or how should I determine how to refer to you and what pronouns to use?

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I want to be respectful but if they say they don’t care what pronouns I use for them, that feels like it puts the decision on me to choose what to call them and I guess I would probably default to “they” because choosing a gender for them feels weird… am I wrong?

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Catsrules@lemmy.ml
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What do the people who are bad with names do?

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Track_Shovel@slrpnk.net
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Audibly shit their pants, obviously

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DarkenLM@kbin.social
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What in the name of fuck did I just watch lol

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metaStatic@kbin.social
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Get my name wrong all the fucking time. “oh I bet you get that a lot”

Jesus fuck I wish people would just misgender me so I could get righteously indigent instead of constantly correcting people with a smile.

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