I think there’s always going to be assholes, but I think we can build a society where it’s real hard for assholes to hurt anyone. I think alot about how women had it better in the GDR because they weren’t financially dependent on men for anything and if their partner was a shit they could just leave without being financially ruined. Like that’s a change in material circumstances that makes it so abusers have a harder time abusers and victims have an easier time getting out. It’s real concrete. i think about it a lot.