I lost my virginity with 17. They need to learn some patience because finding people just gets worse the older you get and 19 is still way too young to radicalize themselves into some sort of incel. For Americans, half of them lose their virginity between 16-20 years, with 90% of them until they’re 22, so if he’s 19 then he’s still completely in the average statistics. And if he doesn’t manage to find a girlfriend by his 30s, then it’s very likely not his looks that are the issue here.