Harping on people to get married from up in the ivory tower fails to engage with reality of life in the dating trenches.

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That is a great point and I wish they went further on the better social safety nets. If you really want healthy children that should be the focus regardless of gender of the parent. I think its odd when people talk about how marriage is only for children or you need to be married to have children its gross and so old fashioined.

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yeah like why can’t people just get married if they want to get married, or not get married if they don’t want to get married? has never made sense to me

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Whenever I hear people talk about marriage rates and birth rates I get disgusted. Like we’re a bunch of animals in a zoo

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