you keep saying ‘women’ in this comment when referring to cis women, which is the main issue here - it’s not like trans women are winning and then secretly going ‘yes, another victory for men’, but rather it’s cis women who are not seeing trans women as part of the same team. So what if some trans women get socialised in such a way that they have an advantage in pool? The only reason this is an issue is if you fundamentally see a victory for trans women as a loss for cis women. The fact this is being shown as oppositional (and being played as such) is the major issue here - if a cis woman had gone through the same experiences, and had the same advantages, would she also be considered an unfair competitor?
if we’re going down that path, shouldn’t we separate anybody who has had a parent who played pool from people with parents who didn’t play? And then shouldn’t we separate those based on who owned a pool table at home from those who didn’t? At what point are we drawing the line, if ‘might have had a Dad who pressured them into sports’ is an acceptable metric? Not to mention that basing your opinion on ‘tropes’ is how this discussion was started - people who’s only experience is seeing ‘Men In Dresses’ tropes on TV and then developing their opinions on trans people’s right to equal participation in society from that.
That is exactly my thoughts on the matter. There are many potential advantages some women will have over other women. Same with any other catagory of competitors, unless we just put everyone into an open category. But I don’t think that’s going to help the woman in the post.