-7 points
Not sure what you mean by “in a decent way”, but too early is how you get called a creep.
9 points
As always it matters how you convey your message. if you’re too blunt you’re obv gonna be called out for it. Learn to be smooth and noone will call you out besides assholes.
If you’re ugly or beautiful af (by social standards) it doesn’t affect the outcome as much tho, because beauty privilege.