I take solace in the fact that this is 90% of the arguments against communism. If their only argument is to either willfully or deliberately refuse to understand the ideology they are criticising, it’s probably a sign that it has a solid foundation and is very convincing. The only thing anti-coms have is deception and lies. They have to trick people into their position, we can show people reality as it is, we get to be on the side of reality, instead of delusion, and that gives us the tools we need to navigate the world, even if it can be very distressing.