Thanks for all the interesting replies! Given the response, I decided to make a whole community around this, hope you’ll consider joining!
If you liked this thread, you might like: !likethismaylike@lemm.ee
Remember, if you’re on a different instance you may have to search the url first: https://lemm.ee/c/likethismaylike
I’m sure Epica has that aspect, but I would instead recommend … The Project Hate MCMXCIX!!!
Pretty much all of it is exactly as described, aggressive male, melodic female. They are excellent.
Sorry, here’s a Spotify link, couldn’t find this track on youtube
https://open.spotify.com/track/5yKIKRcUAlSW6H1JFdZIF1?si=8d9c960d206e4820
Oh man, I had forgotten about these guys, they are freakin excellent. The track name is ‘At the Entrance of Hell’s Unholy Fire’