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66 points

I’m usually ready to laugh at this asshole, but if he has a drug problem, then I pity him.

Important note: pity and sympathy are similar, but not the same thing.

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38 points

Normalize pitying your enemies instead of hating them.

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33 points

Yeah do like Mr T. And pity the fools.

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I used to work with this mean miserable guy and there were so many times a lot of us would try to cheer him up. Share food, invite to after work drinks, movies, concerts, just include him. He never took anyone up on it, ever. After a friend of mine left that job and confronted him about his shitty attitude and self alienation, he just said, “I don’t want your pity.”

Ironically, after I heard that I stopped sympathizing and did just pity the guy.

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Maybe he just didn’t want to hang out with you guys and had a perfectly fine life outside of work. Crazy, I know.

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I can do both. I pity the sad man who is addicted to drugs, but also he’s a fascist campaigning for human suffering and I hate that about him.

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9 points

Sometimes I say “sympathy without empathy” for these situations lol

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Empathy is to understand another’s emotional state. Sympathy is to effectively mirror it.

Buuuut, much like “literally” now means “figuratively” and “decimate” has lost all meaning after being mistaken for “devastate”… Carry on. The species is circling the drain anyhow.

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29 points

Misuse of decimate gets me every 10th time

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7 points

You miss 100% of the pants you don’t shit

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4 points

Does decimate actually mean to place a decimal?

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It gets me like every third time

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