even for normal people they’re not really designed with human joy in mind…but GOD it’s miserable trying to start a real thing just from cold texting
i mean look at this what the fuck am i doing. the phrase ‘pissing in the wind’ comes to mind
Yeah, I never liked them. They’re designed to keep you in their app as long as possible, not to get matched with people you actually vibe with.
I met my fiance through a hookup app, but that was a complete fluke. The app didn’t help me get to know him any better than it did for anyone else I met. It was mostly our time spent together in person that made me fall in love enough to propose. As soon as we started dating, I deleted that app and never looked back.