I feel like my house is constantly a fucking mess. My wife and I work 80 hours between us and we have a 2 year old and I feel like it’s constantly a mess.

We do what we can and often spend a couple hours on a weekend tidying but it’s a losing battle.

How do you cope/keep on top of things?

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You just need to master one rule: designate a place for each item and put them IMMEDIATELY back in their designated place after use.

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OP can master that rule today, won’t make a damn bit of difference with a 2 year old around.

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haha, yes, all hope is lost there…

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Oh yes, this is the path to giving up.

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If your 2 year old has access to so much shit then you have bigger issues.

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It’s very interesting indeed. A while ago I read Carl Popper’s Open Society and it’s Enemies. In that book he argues that Plato and to some extent Aristotle have developed underlying philosophical tools to support, for a lack of better term, “closed” societies. For example slaves rather remain slaves, farmers remain farmers, and rulers remain rulers. He argues that they contribute to a totalitarianism, and undermine democracy by discouraging being equal and in general “change”.

Take all this with a grain of salt, since it’s a while I’ve read the book, so can’t articulate it better. But your comment reminded me of all this, so I thought it might be interesting for you and other readers.

ps: I personally think there is no natural place for things, that’s us, sentient beings, who define that and give things meanings.

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Yeah, it really helps if you limit the amount of stuff you have in your house and put everything back where it belongs right away.

If you then clean 1/1.5 hours a week you can keep everything relatively clean.

Also like one of the others comments said a robot vacuum can really help limit the dust in your house.

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