Neighbours recently had their home remodelled, which involved them putting new glazing in their bathroom. The glass is not frosted enough and there’s a lot to see.

They are large windows too, starting at knee hight. How do I bring this up?

Bonus points if someone can tell me why this community keeps showing my subscription as pending.

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I feel like most of the comments are making a bigger deal out of this than it really is. “Hey guys, just FYI your frosted windows aren’t frosted enough, we can see through them from over here, just thought you should know”

It’s not really a complicated conversation.

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Right? It’d be a bit of an embarrassing conversation but it would be a lot less awkward to bring it up now instead of waiting months to tell them. The longer you wait the harder it’ll be to tell them that you can see them naked.

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Go there, ring the bell, tell them. The longer you wait the creepier that conversation is going to be.

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And when you do it, make sure you stare at them unblinkingly to assert dominance.

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Yeah exactly right. In a few weeks it’s worse.

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Bring a video.

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Agree, it might seem an awkward conversation but if they’re not idiots they’ll realise you’re looking out for them. You could leave an anonymous letter or something, but there is a good chance they’ll guess it was you anyways.

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Invite him over while she is taking a shower. Enjoy the view together. Let them draw their own conclusions.

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“They did a really neat job with your appendix scar”

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Just tell them. If that was me I’d wanna know ASAP!

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