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23 [M4F] I'm looking for a friendship, and if it works out, a relationship

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Umm that’s pretty much it. Don’t think this is a low effort post. I couldn’t elaboratively tell all my feelings, because I may end up venting here. I’d like to tell the users that I am alone. And now a days I feel lonely and empty. I am a good guy with good sense of humour, but I lost myself in many events, that now I’m alone. I wish to get friends with people who are having the same thought process as mine (I hope, if you’re on lemmy, then you’re almost) and I’d like to talk to you. Thanks.

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morphballganon@lemmy.world
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Maybe try a dating app? I’ve had good experiences with Feeld, Okcupid and Tinder. They’re all pretty different. I’d suggest trying all of them and see where it gets you. If no luck, see if you can find a coach. Sometimes you can get feedback on your profile or pictures.

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nolefan33@sh.itjust.works
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I had a lot more luck on Hinge. In my area at least, it felt like people were looking for actual connections more than the others. I second trying multiple though, feels like different regions have very different people on each app.

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Elmiar@lemmy.worldOP
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Um, ok so thanks for your suggestions and support. But I am against the concept of online dating apps. Not online dating, just dating apps or platforms. Because they are proprietary, and secondly you can’t find normal, grounded, or real people there with real views, (it’s atleast my personal opinion). So, that’s why I’m here.

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morphballganon@lemmy.world
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What is a real person with real views?

I’m on 3 dating apps. So I must be a fake person with fake views? I don’t understand.

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Elmiar@lemmy.worldOP
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Here in this video zizek speaks about projecting fake personality https://youtu.be/rrxk2WzrE14?feature=shared

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