Any kind of naughtiness make sure to add it here. We’re dying to know!
I’ll add my own non-update below :-)
Pretty chill weekend for me, girlfriend and I spent most of it cuddling up on the couch watching Netflix, I got to introduce her to The Good Place, it’s one of my favorite shows! Easy to pause and put on hold when we’d get distracted
hehehehe distracted ;-)
I will confess I’m not very good at just cuddling for a long time without it getting sexy. It’s something I have to work on for sure.
As I mentioned last week, I took this week off from sex. Some of the guys and gals online did a great job of teasing me with some very naughty chats, pics, and videos. Basically had me constantly hard and wanting to fuck. I think I had gotten used to being really sexual because I had to jack off up to three or four times a day to feel normal!
On a cleaner note, I went to a black tie benefit event with my sister. She’s a great wingman. With her support, I got the phone numbers of two really sexy, beautiful, and smart women! I haven’t picked someone up like that in a long time. I’m making plans with each of them (separately!). Let’s see where it goes!
I just signed up for Tinder, and listed myself as bi. It’s kind of annoying that I’m matching like 90% with guys and maybe 10% women. I would like a more even split. I guess this is why some other bi guys told me they use those apps for women only…
edit: I guess at least there are a lot of very attractive people in general on there.
Unfortunately a lot of girls have a dumb stigma about bi guys, it’s such a stupid double standard
Thanks! I did pretty quickly remove the “bisexual” label from my profile and that helped. It increased my matches from 0% to 10% female 🙃
Wow only 10%?! That’s crazy, I had no idea so many women would care that a guy is bi!
It’s weird that so much girls avoid bi guys. I guess there’s some underlying biphobic prejudice. They should meet my SO. She likes to be with a man who knows both sides, and understands that some male behaviors are, in fact, neither cool nor pleasant.
And that’s nice of your sister. Does she only put you in touch with girls? Does she know that you’re interested in boys too?
Wow, damn! I hope the date with the two ladies goes well! Your sister is a hell of a wingman!
And to be honest, if your sister set you up, chances are the ladies are pretty cool too - I doubt family members would want their siblings to be hooking up with some weirdo!
lol “date with the two ladies” makes it sound like a date with both of them at the same time. I wouldn’t be opposed, mind you…
Yeah, my sister is great. She didn’t set us up like that, but she did intro herself and talk me up a bit when I went to get a drink. She’s super excited for me, too :-)
For the past couple of months, I’ve been trying an experiement. I’ve decided not to be touching myself, not even for a little relief, not to help me sleep, not at all.
I’m doing this for my other half, who hasn’t asked me to refrain from self-abuse, who wouldn’t have thought to ask about it, and was even mildly horrified when I explained to her what I was doing. My other half is a poweful person in life, she leads people at work, she grows food at home, she raises chickens, she learns fast and cannot be stopped. However, behind closed doors, she wants someone to take charge. She doesn’t want to decide what we are going to do, she wants someone else to be in charge for a while.
Not touching myself has made me a little… intense. Loud. Maybe a little demanding. And she’s been enjoying it immensely, to the point where we have to take a couple of nights a week off to recover.
Very hot stuff! I should try that next and really lean into my dominant nature with partners.
Being the dominant partner is completely new for me, so I’m having to work at it. An example: the wife is in to CNC/rape play, and I’m a bit uncomfortable with it. But she wanted it. Cue me, sitting in the car outside of our house after work, trying to get it together well enough that I could do what she wanted. I made it happen, and we had fun, but I’m more of a soft dom.
Being dominant takes practice, it would appear.
You sound like a good partner. I enjoy being a pleasure dom a lot. I’m not sure I could be “mean” even if it’s just acting.
I’m glad someone has mentioned wanking in the context of helping get some sleep. I thought it was just me!!
Nothing! It’s been a busy week, so I’ve shared some pics and that’s about it! Had a work event that I went to, got to dress up a bit. Also had some family events this weekend. So all in all, very non-spicy, but still fun 😊
I met several guys at the sauna, no much to tell about them. Except one.
First, he was handsome. About my age, a thin body, not too muscular, his right arm full tattooed and his left nipple pierced, with slanted eyes.
I started to caress him in the steam room, my mouth found its way to his long thin cock. After a few time, he interrupted to kiss me, and I whispered in his ear “would you fuck me, please?”.
We took a room and got back to kissing, caressing, sucking each other, until he was hard enough to put a condom. He asked to fuck me missionary. I tried to cross my legs in his back (I love when a girl does that to me) but he stretched out my legs to kiss my feet, while I played with his nipples.
Then we made a pause, he lied on his back and sucked me, sitting on my knees close to his head. Then, he asked me to sit on his cock.
After a while, we changed position so he fucked me doggystyle, and finally he pushed me face to the bed, and fucked me pronebone.
We finished with a mutual handjob, and spent a few more time kissing, hugging and talking. That was lovely.
Wow. That’s really steamy. Makes me really miss the feeling of intimacy from this past week. Glad you had fun! You think you would ever see him again or was the anonymity what makes it so hot?
Someone asking me to fuck them like that is such a huge turn on.
I’m pretty sure you’ll feel this intimacy again soon. Sometimes, a week off doesn’t hurt.
About him, we’ll never meet again (he was in town for a business trip). We made love like if it was the first and the last time. Carpe diem.
And yes, words can be as steamy as an embrace. Those who say consent kills desire don’t know much about it.
Damn, I’ve go to the sauna about every two weeks, and not a single girl even eyed me. There are not many that sauna fully naked tho - which I do, because it’s better for the experience and it’s the way to sauna. Lucky guy.