I went with i3 (i3wm) instead of a full DE on my debian laptop. I wanted to minimize trackpad use without requiring peripherals (like a mouse).

On one hand it’s highly performant and easily configurable; on the other hand, it does lead to problems that I wouldn’t have known about with a DE—for example, I had screen tearing for months until I learned I needed a compositor, which doesn’t come included.

In other words: it is a very barebones OOBE, and requires a lot of setup and RTFM (it’s probably in the user guide that i need a compositor), but the reward of higher performance/lower power draw, easily configuring the hell out of it, smoothly navigating everywhere with the keyboard alone, and reclaiming screenspace from taskbars and titlebars has made it my preferred setup (even on desktop).

Tangential to the question, but my “no mouse” ethic has taken considerable effort to learn the cli way of dealing with configuration that is trivialized by GUIs (e.g. volume and wifi, i’m still struggling with bluetooth and rtorrent), but it’s made the experience of working on a laptop 500% more enjoyable and less of an uphill struggle against the trackpad, and it doesn’t require a flat surface for a mouse.

I use Gnome on my Thinkpad. That machine has an i7 and 16gb of ram. Ok my tiny Chromebook I got Mate. Very lightweight and almost as many features as Gnome.

If I want to use a graphical user interface, I generally use KDE Plasma.

KDE on Manjaro.

I haven’t tried Gnome since they trashed the UI ;) and I wasn’t ever much of a KDE fan so the only desktop I have ever used since the demise of Gnome 2 is XFCE.

However I’ve switched back to Window Maker (a window manager) on my main PC and on my VM’s and I may do so on my laptops too. I don’t really need a desktop so to speak, I just use wmsystray to add a system tray and things like NetworkManager, bluez etc all end up there giving me what I actually do use of a desktop.