Now thatâs some bad parenting. But you are going to need to do something if you donât eventually wanna live on the streets. Your mom isnât going to be there forever, and doing nothing for longer will make it more difficult.
And if itâs her thatâs keeping you down and disfunctional, I can tell you from experience its 1000x better to live alone.
This sounds like getting a job thrown on your lap, unless you really hate it, go for it. You can always use it for some experience and go for something else later.
Now thatâs some bad parenting.
I donât think this counts as parenting, because OP isnât a child.
Thatâs a very fed up roommate being passive aggressive instead of just going through a justified eviction.
OPâs mom was responsible for making them a productive, happy, independent person. But she clearly failed, thatâs on her
I donât think anyone knows the green text poster in question, so it could be either honestly. âYou can lead a horse to waterâ and all of that
Only children think this way. Sure, your parents are supposed to teach you how to do things but if they donât or if they do a bad job of it youâre still an asshole if you donât at least try to figure it out for yourself.
Yea genuinely like I want to become productive but my parents have been so controlling that theyâve stopped me over and over again. Being a NEET at 26 does not happen in a vacuum.
Please dispatch is a truly terrible first job though.
They need to be started off with something much more low stakes so that when they inevitably screw it up it isnât a major issue
In case youâre out of the loop like me and need to look it up:
NEET = This is a term used in the field of education, the acronym stands for; Not in Education, Employment or Training but young people have started to use it as a term for bums/layabouts with no future.
I hope he lasts three months, because they always need more dispatchers. So many of them quit because of the horrible things they hear. Like people crying for help while theyâre being killed.
I couldnât do that shit. I donât have the fortitude for it.
One wonders how we have a functioning dispatch system. Folks have the most stressful phone conversations you could imagine nonstop for their entire workday. Mistakes are documented publically and may quite literally cost lives. It is extremely likely that you will develop trauma, so much so that counseling is free and integrated into the job. The rules are rigid, and you are subject to initial and ongoing randomized drug tests.
Total compensation: ~ 23$/hr
Where in the world are you able to have your mom âsign you upâ to be a dispatcher?! To work for our dispatch, you have to apply, have a rigorous background check and a panel-type interview. And then they last less than 3 months because they make all their dispatchers switch from day to night shift and vice versa every two weeks.
They were probably âpromisedâ the job. Anon will will still need to apply and the state will perform the minimum amount of interviews (theyâre legally obligated to) only to miraculously land on a candidate with no experience. Good old fashioned nepotism.
Most likely this is fiction of a deranged person. Considering every possible situation they might get a job and how to avoid it.