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nah the guy spreading the rumor in the first place is the biggest piece of shit in this scenario, FAFO
Definitely, but telling lies in response is just sociopathic, which seems to jive with lots of folks online apparently.
Downvote away but this is in no way a healthy response. Once again, showcasing the toxicity of people on lemmy. This place is a shit hole
And the original lie isn’t sociopathic? You seem to think the secondary lies are somehow more damaging to the man than the original lie is damaging to the woman
Edit: ain’t saying this is a healthy or nice response. But he dished out a malicious, cruel lie that would damage her reputation (b/c let’s be real, the people doing this are teens and the slut label does real, lasting damage to a girl’s reputation), so she’s dishing malicious, cruel lies to damage his reputation. It’s weird that you decided that her behavior is worse than his. They’re doing the same thing to each other, he just started it in an attempt to boost his own reputation, which makes him the bigger piece of shit.
Ideally without the transphobic shit.
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yes that is a whole different kind of being an asshole. You don’t get to cHaLLeNge the gender identity of anyone but yourself.
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the things said about the made up sexual encounter are clearly ment to demean or embarass the other person. Hence why it is transphobic.
But that’s exactly the point. The dudes claiming he slept with her when he didnt.
I don’t think using someone’s own insecurities against them because they were a jerk is quite the same as being truly hurtful to people who are actually going through mental distress.
Sure, maybe they’re just jerky to everyone, but making prejudiced presuppositions is the same stereotyping that everyone should avoid.
Best would be “he wanted to have sex but when he warned me about his micropenis I was uncomfortable with the girth, it was too big for my tiny vagina.”
I think they mean using a characteristic that some people gave as an insult to someone else. It’s unfair to mock someone else by using a characteristic that someone else has, which they cannot control (in this case, an aspect of their body shape, like a micro penis). The same can be said of insulting someone by calling them “retarded”, for example. It’s always demeaning to the person who has that characteristic, when it is used as an insult toward another person.
If only it worked like that… Unfortunately the stigma is far greater on the first victim’s side, the response would lightly graze the asshole’s reputation
if a guy claims he slept with someone but they deny it, is anyone really just going to take the guy for his word?
Completely depends on the girl.
If she’s considered to be of loose morals, people will believe the guy. If she’s the teacher’s pet and goes to Sunday services, she’s getting the benefit of the doubt.
I spent 15 years working with high school boys. This is how it played out every time with few exceptions. We saw it multiple times per year. Society might evolve but the locker room moves a lot slower. We kept focusing on respecting each other, consent and keeping your yap shut when you’ve done something private with a consenting partner to respect privacy. Kids don’t listen.
It wouldn’t be a Tumblr screenshot without also showing some other person reacting to the actual content.
And their reaction didn’t even add anything to it. Could have been cropped out completely and only made it better.
