I despised my old voice and I changed it. It took me the better part of about 8 months to get it somewhere, and it’s not perfect by any means (it has some weird quality to it that I can’t figure out what it is), but it’s infinitely better to me than it was forever ago. I will say that I can’t bring it the rest of the way home cause that small quality throws me into dysphoria mode and I hate it.
As a note, I’m not saying this to put anyone down. Just to share my experiences. Whichever voice you choose for yourself is valid and, at the end of the day, yours to choose.
Transyphus
Me, when I was male presenting: Hello ma'am, how are you today?
Me, now that I’m trying to present more androgynous: Hello sir, how are you today?
I haven’t changed my voice in the slightest either
Honestly I’ve had other experiences. Due to long hair I’ve been referred ma’am a few times and honestly that made me feel cute and soft and stuff. But I always love to correct them to sir. The little shock older people get when seeing a girlish boy is amazing.
I like also to hang around trans spaces due to this because from those I can learn how to increase my beauty factor and raise the cuteness scale but I still feel best being a MAN doing MANLY SHIT, like seeing that picture of a shrimp and yelling at the top of my lungs HELL YEAH.
It’s funky, because I also don’t feel like an egg or even wish to be a woman. Either way I love you guys.
Oh and more thing. Trans spaces are one of the few places I can get helpful info because if you try to look up anything femboy, all you get is porn upon porn, endless sexualization and objectification and one (1) specific style of clothing. You know which one. Fuck. Thank you all.
Yeah I voice trained specifically because talking on the phone made me feel dysphoric. I used to think I just had phone anxiety!
(i still have phone anxiety it’s just better now)
To voice train one must listen to their voice, hence why I don’t voice train, hence why my voice sounds male. At this rate Mr. Evrart’s helping me find my voice
