like, it’s still dark at 5pm, there are barely any sports on, still bitterly cold and austere and it hurts to go outside, but you’re not even looking forward to christmas or the new year. the new year is here, and it’s largely the same as last year. except you’re getting older.

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Happiness, excitement and anticipation are cycles. In order to experience them again to their full, you must allow them to fade for awhile. Trying to hold onto them for too long is causing you more grief than the actual lack of them in the moment.

Take a moment to breathe, and appreciate where you are, what you have, and who you’ve shared it with, before you rush onward.

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I just like sleeping until 10 every day.

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V nice

Buddhism in essence

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You could do what they do in colder places and buy brightly colored stuff for your place. It’ll still be dark outside but at least the inside will look cheerier.

You could also try planning some beginning of the year parties with friends. That would certainly give you events to look forward to.

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It’s also a great time to focus on health and well-being. I usually try to read and exercise more at the beginning of the year, sometimes long term habits form out of it, sometimes not. But it does help me feel better about the dreariness of the new year.

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It’s not the best strategy, but if your holiday season is just a giant mess of chaos and stress the return to a normal schedule can be very welcome.

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Yeah I was going to say, soulless drudgery sounds like a release at this point.

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We’re past the winter solstice. Take note of the sun setting a bit earlier each day. That always gives me a boost because I can look at my phone and see that condition improving. Good luck!

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You mean setting later each day?

It’s getting lighter in the evenings already!

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Ha! Dumbass mistyping. Thanks, you’re right.

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That makes sense. I was like “fucking vampires!”

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Micro dose lcd

Edit: lol I’m leaving the autocorrect, funnier

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You’re right, I should spend less time with an lcd in my face.

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and an oled, and an micro led

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