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This is a lovely gif, but how is it BDSM?

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I think you’re the type who needs every wooden shape fit in its corresponding correct hole, color coded, and finally arranged by size.

This is a pegging.

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Ok a couple of responses:

  1. I wasn’t trying to be a smart ass, I was legit asking for clarification.
  2. Pegging is defined https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pegging_(sexual_practice) as a cis man getting penetrated by a cis woman.
  3. Even if this was pegging, there’s nothing inherently BDSM around the act of pegging. It may be kinky, but it doesn’t have to have a dom/sub or top/bottom dynamic. It can but it doesn’t have to.

Source: am a cis man who has been pegged in a very romantic, loving, non-BDSM fashion.

You may call me a little anal (pun intended) about terms. I acknowledge that. IMHO getting kink terms right is really important for the community at large and how it is communicated with our partners and beyond.

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This is pornography, not academia. Please stop.

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Create the change you want this place to become. Why not post something more to your liking?

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Source?

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Scene is : a woman’s touch, with Armani Black and Renee Rose

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Wow. Bravo!

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Sensual BDSM - Evocative dynamics that make you melt inside

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Sensual BDSM A community for the more romantic side of BDSM, exploring the erotic tension within the dynamics, the inside journey of the lifestyle, and the immense pleasure of the build up of play.

We share evocative media and respectful discussion, mixing pleasure with community. You’re very welcome to dip your toes in, and see if there’s something here for you to enjoy.

#Rules:

Be excellent to eachother

Post, share, comment, and everything else with care and empathy. Help all of us be the best version of ourselves, and be an ally in bettering, learning and sharing.

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To start with, the media will be heavily moderated to fit a certain mood and aesthetic I can’t yet fully articulate, please have patience while we’re building this up.

The mood we’re aiming for is hot, heavy, enticing, sensual, with a focus on the arousal and lust of the participants. As such all posts need to be of consensual and erotically charged scenes, stories, captions, etc.

Feel free to post anything you feel might contribute to the mood, the mods will curate submissions and open discussions as needed.

Also, feel free to post any gender expression cast in any roles, as long as it’s sexy to you. Together we can widen the norm to include all of the sexiness.

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