This is a lovely gif, but how is it BDSM?
I think you’re the type who needs every wooden shape fit in its corresponding correct hole, color coded, and finally arranged by size.
This is a pegging.
Ok a couple of responses:
- I wasn’t trying to be a smart ass, I was legit asking for clarification.
- Pegging is defined https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pegging_(sexual_practice) as a cis man getting penetrated by a cis woman.
- Even if this was pegging, there’s nothing inherently BDSM around the act of pegging. It may be kinky, but it doesn’t have to have a dom/sub or top/bottom dynamic. It can but it doesn’t have to.
Source: am a cis man who has been pegged in a very romantic, loving, non-BDSM fashion.
You may call me a little anal (pun intended) about terms. I acknowledge that. IMHO getting kink terms right is really important for the community at large and how it is communicated with our partners and beyond.
Source?