So I posted on FetLife looking for someone to spank me in the Seattle area. I found someone I felt safe with and met him last night. We spoke. He reassured me he would follow my safeword if I called. Then, in his flat he had me lower my jeans and bend over his knee as he sat in a chair.
It was just a hand spanking. But he was strong and he did not stop. It was at times overwhelming. I never called my safeword, but I did come close a few times. At the end, there were a few tears but I felt rejuvenated.
I’ve cum a three times since last night remembering it. My Gosh, I’ve missed this.
Should I ask?
Could you describe what he did right and a bit of what you were thinking? I had my first introduction with spanking someone last night and i would appreciate your insight as i expect to hang out with the same person in the future. I like to be prepared to do things for other people and im often willing to see how it goes even if its not something in doing for myself.
I am curious really about insight into this since ive mostly just encountered it on screen and its not a passion for me so i think it would be good to hear about the experience from a real person.
If you prefer to DM me instead thats cool too!
So, it was very uncomfortable at first. We’d chatted a bit beforehand, but actually meeting him was another matter. He is not anyone I’d want to date. Too old and not my type. But I really wanted a spanking and my partner was out of town, so I took the opportunity.
The spanking itself was another matter. It was very difficult lowering my jeans at first, it just felt so perfunctory. But I did it and lay over his knee as instructed. And what he lacked in social skills he more than made up for in arse slapping. I’ll give him that! 🤣
It was totally different from what I’d experienced with my prior Ma’am. That was always far more intimate and a much harsher belt spanking. She punished me. He just spanked my bottom red and left me dazed and wonderfully calm after.
I went home and immediately masturbsted! 😆
I hear that like you going home and masturbating, was you celebrating what happened. Which is a delightful narrative when it false.
Now your ma’am and this guy seemed to be of vary different styles. What was that first smack like? And was it from the first contact of palm to cheek that you recognized this was going to be a noteworthy experience? Im realizing my attention and curiosity is on the spanking itself im eager to get a glimpse of just your journey from first to last smack.
Though now that i think about it being in the height of it you may have gone to a place mentally that doesnt exist in this moment. Do you think you can describe or outline what were the decisions he made that worked so well for you? How would you teach someone else to repeat the experience you had with him?
He took his time. It began very lite. Like almost nothing. So the first swats didn’t make much impression. But then he ramped up. I started to feel a little sting. He must have noticed. Asked if I was OK. I said yes. Then he said, I’m going to go harder now. Can you handle that? I said yes, please. And at that point he began spanking me with force. After that, I just let myself go into the experience. It lasted a good twenty minutes, and then he said his hand was tired.
