Hi, never had Sex. If I masturbate, I cum after idk something around 5 to 10 minutes. After that my Penis gets a little bit softer but stays erected and I can continue longer. How is that in Sex with a condom? Should I change the condom after I came the first time? Immediately or just before I cum a second time? How to change it? How to do it so my Penis stays hard, because if I dont get stimulation after I came my penis gets softer. Any other tips? Is there a good SexEd video channel, preferrable on a porn video plattform like pornhub?

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I would take the condom off right after you cum. Just pull it off. Maybe jerk off a little bit in between putting a new condom on to stay hard. Also maybe use an oxballs cocksling, it’ll help you stay hard.

https://oxballs.com/shop/ols/products/cocksling-2-the-original-the-best-cock-ball-sling-oxballs

https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/condom/how-to-put-a-condom-on

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The oxball looks like it hurts.

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I’ve never had pain issues using them. You could just use a regular style cock ring instead.

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Change it before moving on for round 2. As far as maintaining stimulation, that is what your partner is for. Or perhaps you stimulate yourself while your partner puts the condom on.

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You have to change it and clean up each time you cum in a condom.

There is a high risk of slipping or break if there is cum in the condom.

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Change your condom immediately after ejaculation and clean yourself off before putting a new one on if you are continuing. If not you’ll likely have the condom slip off when you add such slippery liquid inside the condom especially if you go partially limp.

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What should I use for wiping my dick? A paper tissue would partially stick to my dick because of some cum.

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A lot of the time I use a shirt or something from the laundry hamper but I would recommend using something like a baby wipe if you are going for round 2

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I would not use something that is part of the laundry pile because of microbes.

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Keep a package of disposable, unscented, wet wipes for sensitive skin in your sex drawer. They’re useful for a lot of cleanup.

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This is the protip. Not even just for after, but can even be used before.

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Just use a washcloth or other rag. Make sure you’re dry when done.

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