Reminder that your mood, health and the orientation of the planets can cause you to be one or the other any given time.
My coworkers think I’m the latter no matter how much I demonstrate I’m the former
My wife is the first time and I’m the second type. By our powers combined, we’re barely functional!
People constantly telling me i was so relaxed growing up. No shit, I avoid stressers like the plague, to the point my brain threw out my emotions in high school. Everything only started resurfacing when I became an adult and I couldn’t avoid stressful stuff like being healthy and having to work and clean up after myself
I’m the type that sits quietly doing everything except the thing I should be doing, feeling anxious about that thing, and staying so quiet that people even forget I’m there.
