semi- Serious question, Idon’t get it. Most of us get why the hegemonic gender system is stupid, why subscribe to the binary role you were assigned? Also, why do straight people exist? Maybe it’s just me but I like to look and feel like my own perception of what is attractive.

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Ping me when a few people have answered

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I’m mostly joking

Edit: to elaborate, people sometimes naively ask this of trans people, so I thought it would be interesting to observe if the shoe was on the other foot. Now, this may seem like King Charles II’s request for an explanation for why a dead fish is heavier than a living one, but there is still a tiny bit of reason involved. The one I could come up with is just with the social construction of gender it is far easier to be normative if it doesn’t go against your being. I imagine it would be easier for people to experiment and go beyond current constraints comfortably in a communist post-gender society, but for now it’s not too hard for most to conform (beyond the obvious pain caused by the double edged sword of patriarchy).

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Now, this may seem like King Charles II’s request for an explanation for why a dead fish is heavier than a living one

That’s a strange analogy

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I like to reference relatively obscure things. The specific anecdote I recently read in a philosophy book called ‘After Virtue.’

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Because I like BEER and WOMEN and ARM-WRESTLING and other MANLY things and I am definitely not COMPENSATING for any insecurities by performing a heteronormative role in society in a desperate attempt to fit in!

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This might have been an okay bit if not for the “serious question,” which I still refuse to believe.

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Sorry, I fixed it

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I don’t understand gender but society says that everyone must be gendered so here we are

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