I have a 5 year old cat that I adopted 3 years ago, and I’d like to get him a companion but I’m struggling to identify the characteristics I should look for. Can anyone offer advice?
He’s a rugged old soul. He loves playing with my 2 year old dog but otherwise just lounges around nearby but not touching - typical Russian Blue. He does try to clean and cuddle the dog, but the pup doesn’t understand and runs away. He was actively cuddling with other cats at the shelter when I adopted him so I think he’ll do well with a housemate.
I’ve met a few shelter cats this week but I’m stressing about identifying which would be a good fit. Are male and female both a good bet? Would it be best to get a kitten, an older cat, or somewhere in between? Playful or extremely lazy, or a lap cat?
I know I’ll be happy with any choice, so I’m mostly focused on finding a good match for my Russian Blue. Thanks.
get a male kitten! (the older cat will teach it how to act a certain amount, you won’t really be able to identify how a kitten will act later, it’s a kitten and it will change)
we have adopted cats younger than most shelters will adopt, and and as old as 6 months. best is old enough to be fixed or already fixed as some shelters will do
How about a cat of similar age? Ask for a social one, as he seems to like to cuddle with other cats. Also maybe one with a similar activity level (e.g. a Siamese might be to much energy for yours). But in the end you know yourcat best and need to try it out.
Also think about what you want. They should be somewhat compatible, yes, but its okay for you to want a cat to play and cuddle with, too.
So decide what you need and want, trust the people working at the shelter and your gut on this one.
Good look finding your next family member.
I’d suggest another male - because their powers will be more leveled during playtime.
WAP
