Edit: I have to commute 1,5 hours oneway to get to work. HomeOffice is allowed 2 times a week. So I am leaving when my son is still in bed and come back when he is in bed again. Thing is, the money is good and the job is kind of a dream job for me.

Edit2: Wow! Thank you for your comments. These are exactly the thoughts Inhad in my mind, but couldn’t point my fingers on them. Unfortunately there is no way to get more days wfh, because high management says so. So i came to the descision to either ask for part time or get the new job asap

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You’re gonna have to give us more than that I’m afraid.

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Edited my post. I just get used to lemmy, sorry for that.

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Ah, no worries then. Glad you’re here!

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Don’t quit unless you have a new job first. I had a friend quit first and he’s still looking over 8 months later.

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Yep. The old adage is “its easier to find work when you’re working”

I’ve always found it harder to find a job when I was not working vs. when I was.

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I would ask, what do you value more? You’re career or your family?

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Definitelyy my family, but as this is kind of my dreamjob, this is a tough decision

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Would moving closer to your workplace be an option? You said the pay is good and you like working there.

You could save up to 3 hours every non-homeoffice work day.

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Can you use your home office days to look for other work that’s closer to home or is wfh? A commute like that is incomprehensible to me. I’m lucky enough that I have never worked more than 20 minutes from my house, and I don’t even apply to jobs that are further away. I understand not everyone can do that she to their industry and costs of living in certain areas, but 3 hours a day of commute is brutal.

In my mind, if you’re missing out on time with your family, especially your child, it’s a no brainier. But, because you have a family to support, you should find a new job before you quit this one. A job you like and quality time at home is better than your dream job and missing all the milestones of growing up.

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