No gatekeepers with valid opinions at least.
I made this meme to challenge my own doubt in 2022, and Iâm honestly proud of it. However, I wanted to wait till I was more certain before coming out, so I tried to affirm myself in subtle ways. Unfortunately, I didnât realize how much dysphoria negatively affects me, so my mental health plummeted to the worst itâs ever been.
Donât be like me and wait for impossible certainty. You wonât magically have a moment where all doubts disappear. Logic canât help you, you need to listen to what feels most comfortable. I only knew I made the right choice after I took that leap.
Sometimes you know but you donât feel it. I hated that feeling. Took months for me to get past, best of luck to any current eggs.
Rock on.
There are ways to use âlogicâ that are helpful in my opinion. Back in the day, I made two lists. One with all the reasons that I felt like a trans woman and one with all the reasons I felt cis. The first list was much, much longer.