This is the worst part about Apple. I support apple at my work but it gets harder and harder to hear my daughters talk about the bullying on text groups.

WTF is wrong with Apple?

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Imagine caring about the colour of speech bubbles and calling it “bullying”. Some people can’t be helped.

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Teenagers very much do. Apple does as well. You’ve obviously disconnected from it and so your opinion is irrelevant.

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If you kid can get “bullied” over the colour of a speech bubble you fundamentally failed as a parent.

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You don’t have kids or don’t interact with people. You’re also a giant part of the problem.

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Also, WTF is this? That’s like saying, “if you can’t take a punch, you shouldn’t be crying.”

It’s Apple and the supporters that have let this nonsense go on for so long that have failed.

“If you don’t make fun of a kid to the point where they will commit suicide unless you buy them an iPhone, you’ve failed as a parent.”

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To make money

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Sadly, yes

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The color thing is deeply stupid. You can’t change it because Apple won’t allow you to. They use the green because it’s ugly and they do it on purpose. Apple actively degrades your experience because they can, and because they want your experience to be worse for a reason.

That is fucking bonkers to me.

The 15 pro is my first iPhone. I cannot believe there are people that defend this. It’s just absurd. I can’t even fathom bootlicking a company decision to make their device worse for me.

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Apple does not use green because it’s ugly. Green was the original color for SMS since iphone 1, when imessage did not even exist yet. That’s why the app icon is green to this day, not blue. At that time green was the only color in the app, and the app was in fact called “SMS”, not “Messages”.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VQKMoT-6XSg&t=1847

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We used to do lots of dumb things on phones that we don’t do anymore. The green sucks to look at and there’s no reason it can’t be changed by the user except Apple doesn’t want to let you.

At the time of the iphone 1 Apple argued that apps were stupid. The world has changed, yet somehow I can’t change a text color.

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you’re missing the point. apple isn’t trying to subconsciously convince people SMS sucks by using an ‘ugly’ color for SMS. they clearly do not think green is ugly, that’s just your opinion.

I get that you want the option to change colors, and that’s understandable. Just don’t project your subjective preferences into corporate conspiracies that make no sense.

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I get they’re going to support RCS soon, but why let this shit happen for so long?

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I bet their version of RCS is also minimal. Just so they can complain about how broken RCS is. Thanks to their shenanigans, third party messaging apps thrive outside of the standards and market fragmentation is real. Getting to be a damn pain having to check which apps a person has before being able to communicate with them.

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Read up on RCS’ history, and current standard.

RCS is a clown college of brokenness that doesn’t include encryption, and not even all of the telcoms in the country put together could make an official client for it. It is no more a standard than iMessage, and it certainly isn’t as good of one.

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If RCS gets the bubbles the same color, whatever, that’s great. I always encourage 3rd party apps like Signal to at least get reasonable encryption. I am actually proud of a lot of the kids to use something else.

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RCS at this point is just another Google messenger. And officially unencrypted as well. At least Google recently implemented encryption on top of it and it looks like Apple will adopt it as well.

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Yes, but proprietary methods encourage fragmentation. Id rather they build on a universal standard that gets updated once in a while. If apple were to open up iMessage, I’d be on board. But not holding my breath waiting for that to happen.

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It is a valuable cue to immediately distinguish encrypted from plaintext.

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And where I live you pay for SMS. So blue is free, but green is not. Also helpful.

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In the case of children, isn’t some of this on the parents involved as well? Have the parents of affected children talked to each other about it and reached out to the parents of the bullies to ask if they know their child’s been bullying or however one might go about that conversation?

That said, Apple’s certainly in the wrong in taking advantage of this, and in many ways it’s no surprise. They’re essentially a luxury brand, whose entire business model is exploiting this kind of behavior of social pressure and buying specific products to better fit into a group.

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There are literally committes for talking about it. 3 people because nobody cares. No physical hurt = no real bullying.

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