Why not both? Beat your woman with your meat. Consensually, of course. Or not, I’m not the police, but, you know, not cool
In Dutch it’s called “swaffelen” and it’s not limited to cock slapping women only.
https://bjs.ojp.gov/female-murder-victims-and-victim-offender-relationship-2021
Of the estimated 4,970 female victims of murder and nonnegligent manslaughter in 2021, data reported by law enforcement agencies indicate that 34% were killed by an intimate partner (figure 1). By comparison, about 6% of the 17,970 males murdered that year were victims of intimate partner homicide.
That’s 1690 female and 1078 male nonnegligent deaths due to intimate partners, or 57% higher for females.
Wait. Are you telling me a site with an article titled “Does Wokeism Pose a Mental Health Threat to Women?” might have misleading information?
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